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الصديق

.....الصديق
حروف هذه الكلمة أعجبتني
فماذا تعني هذه الحروف؟
ص: الصدق
د: الدم واحد
ي: يد واحده
ق: قلب واحد

فمن هو الصديق الحقيقي؟ وهل يوجد صديق في هذا الزمان؟

*الصديق الحقيقي: هو الذي تكون معه كما تكون وحدك أي هو الأنسان الذي تعتبره بمثابة النفس.

*الصديق الحقيقي: هو الذي يقبل عذرك ويسامحك أذا أخطأت ويسد مسدك في غيابك.
*الصديق الحقيقي: هو الذي يظن بك الظن الحسن و أذا أخطأت بحقة يلتمس العذر ويقول في نفسه لعله لم يقصد.

*الصديق الحقيقي: هو الذي يرعاك في مالك و أهلك و ولدك و عرضك

*الصديق الحقيقي: هو الذي يكون معك في السراء و الضراء و في الفرح و الحزن و في السعه و الضيق و في الغنى و الفقر.

*الصديق الحقيقي: هو الذي يؤثر على نفسه ويتمنى لك الخير دائمآ

*الصديق الحقيقي: هو الذي ينصحك اذا رأى عيبك وشجعك اذا رأى منك الخير ويعينك على العمل الصالح.

*الصديق الحقيقي: هو الذي يدعي لك بظهر الغيب دون أن تطلب منه ذلك.

*الصديق الحقيقي: هو الذي يحبك يالله وفي الله دون مصلحة مادية أو معنوية.

*الصديق الحقيقي: هو الذي يفيدك بعمله الصالح و أدبه و أخلاقه.

*الصديق الحقيقي: هو الذي يرفع شأنك بين الناس وتفتخر بصداقته ولا تخجل من صحبته و السير معه.

*الصديق الحقيقي: هو الذي يفرح اذا أحتجت اليه ويسرع لخدمتك دون مقابل.

*الصديق الحقيقي: هو الذي يتمنى لك ما يتمنى لنفسه.

لا تيأس إذا تعثرت أفدامك****

لا تيأس إذا تعثرت أقدامك *******
وسقطت في حفرة واسعه فسوف تخرج منها وأنت أكثر تماسكا وقوة **والله مع الصابرين**
لا تحزن إذا جاءك سهم قاتل من أقرب الناس إلى قلبك فسوف تجد من ينزع السهم ويعيد لك الحياة و الابتسامه
لا تضع كل أحلامك في شخص واحد ولا تجعل رحلة عمرك وجه شخص تحبه مهما كانت صفاته
ولا تعتقد أن نهايه الأشياء هي نهاية العالم فليس الكون هو ما ترى عيناك
لا تنتظر حبيباً باعك وانتظر ضوءاً جديداً يمكن أن يتسلل إلى قلبك الحزين فيعيد لأيامك البهجة ويعيد لقلبك نبضه الجميل
لا تحاول البحث عن حلم خذلك وحاول أن تجعل من حالة الإنكسار بداية حلم جديد
لا تقف كثيراً على الأطلال خاصة إذا كانت الخفافيش قد سكنتها والأشباح عرفت طريقها وابحث عن صوت عصفور يتسلل وراء الأفق مع ضوء صباح جديد
لا تنظر إلى الأوراق التي تغير لونها وبهتت حروفها وتاهت سطورها بين الألم و الوحشه سوف تكتشف أن هذه السطور ليست أجمل ما كتبت وأن هذه الأوراق ليست آخر ما سطرت
ويجب أن تفرق بين من وضع سطورك في عينه ومن القى بها للرياح لم تكن هذه السطور مجرد كلام جميل عابر ولكنها مشاعر قلب عاشها حرفاً حرفاً ونبض إنسان حملها حلماً واكتوى بنارها ألماً
لا تكن مثل مالك الحزين هذا الطائر العجيب الذي يغني أجمل الحانه وهو ينزف فلا شيء في الدنيا يستحق من دمك نقطة واحده
إذا أغلقت الشتاء أبواب بيتك وحاصرتك تلال الجليد من كل مكان فانتظر قدوم الربيع وافتح نوافذك لنسمات الهواء النقي وانظر بعيدا فسوف ترى أسراب الطيور وقد عادت تغني وسوف ترى الشمس وهي تلقي خيوطها الذهبيه فوق أغصان الشجر لتصنع لك عمراً جديداً وحلماً جديداً .. وقلباً جديداً
ادفع عمرك كاملاًًًًًًًًًًًًًًًًًًًًًً لإحساس صادق وقلب يحتويك ولا تدفع منه لحظة في سبيل حبيب هارب أو قلب تخلى عنك بلا سبب لا تسافر إلى الصحراء بحثاً عن الأشجار الجميلة فلن تجد في الصحراء غير الوحشة وانظر إلى مئات الأشجار التي تحتويك بظلها وتسعدك بثمارها .. وتشجيك بأغانيها
لا تحاول أن تعيد حساب الأمس وما خسرت فيه فالعمر حين تسقط أوراقه لن تعود مرة أخرى ولكن مع كل ربيع جديد سوف تنبت أوراق أخرى فانظر الى تلك الأوراق التي تغطي وجه السماء ودعك مما سقط على الأرض فقد صارت جزءاً منها
إذا كان الأمس ضاع .. فبين يديك اليوم وإذا كان اليوم سوف يجمع أوراقه ويرحل .. فلديك الغد لا تحزن على الأمس فهو لن يعود ولا تأسف على اليوم .. فهو راحل واحلم بشمس مضيئه في غد جميل
إننا أحياناً قد نعتاد الحزن حتى يصبح جزءاً منا ونصير جزءاً منه وفي بعض الأحيان تعتاد عين الإنسان على بعض الألوان ويفقد القدرة على أن يرى غيرها ولو أنه حاول أن يرى ما حوله لأكتشف أن اللون الأسود جميل ولكن الأبيض أجمل منه وأن لون السماء الرمادي يحرك المشاعر والخيال
ولكن لون السماء أصفى في زرقته
فابحث عن الصفاء ولو كان لحظة
وابحث عن الوفاء ولو كان متعباً و شاقاً
وتمسك بخيوط الشمس حتى ولو كانت بعيده
ولا تترك قلبك ومشاعرك وأيامك لأشياء ضاع زمانها
إذا لم تجد من يسعدك فحاول أن تسعد نفسك
وإذا لم تجد من يضيء لك قنديلاً
فلا تبحث عن اخر أطفأه
وإذا لم تجد من يغرس في أيامك ورده
فلا تسع لمن غرس في قلبك سهماً ومضى
وننسى أن في الحياة أشياء كثيرة يمكن أن تسعدنا
وأن حولنا وجوهاً كثيرة يمكن أن تضيء في ظلام أيامنا شمعة
فابحث عن قلب يمنحك الضوء
ولا تترك نفسك رهينة لأحزان الليالي المظلمة

سيلة تجعلك محبوبا بين الناس20.:
1. إبدأ الأخرين بالسلام والتحية ففي السلام تهيئة وتطمين للطرف الآخر.
2. ابتسم فالإبتسامة مفعولها سحري وفيها استمالة للقلوب.
3. اظهر الإهتمام والتقدير للطرف الآخر وعامل الناس كما تحب أن يعاملوك.
4. للناس أفراح وأتراح فشاركهم في النفوس.
5. اقض حاجات الآخرين تصل إلى قلوبهم فالنفوس تميل إلى من يقضي حاجاتها.
6. عليك بالعفو عن الزلات وتغليب نفسية التسامح.
7. في تفقد الغائب والسؤال عنه ضمان لكسب الود واستجذاب القلوب. 8. لاتبخل بالهدية ولو قل سعرها فقيمتها معنوية أكثر من مادية.
9. اظهر الحب وصرح به فكلمات الود تأسر القلوب.
10. تفنن في تقديم النصيحة ولا تجعلها فضيحة.
11. حدث الآخرين بمجال إهتمامهم فالفرد يميل إلى من يحاوره في مدار اهتمامه.
12. كن إيجابيا متفائلا وابعث البشرى لمن حولك.
13. امدح الآخرين إذا احسنوا فالمدح أثره في النفس ولكن لاتبالغ.
14. انتق كلماتك ترتفع مكانتك فالكلمة الحسنة خير وسيلة لإستمالة القلوب.
15. تواضع فالناس تنفر ممن يستعلي عليهم.
16. تجنب تصيد عيوب الآخرين وانشغل بإصلاح عيوبك.
17. تعلم فن الإنصات فالناس تحب من يصغي إليها.
18. وسع دائرة معارفك واكسب في كل يوم صديق.
19. اسع لتنويع تخصصاتك واهتماماتك تتسع دائرة معارفك وصداقاتك.
20. إذا قدمت معروفا لشخص ما لاتنتظر منه مقابل.

Thus taught me life ....???

* * Thus taught me life

. If woke up too late .. Will remain a rabbit throughout the day
. The sad at the moment of death .. Sorour times in the hour of birth
. Beauty without a virtue .. Without early Abir
. Do not fill your mouth again .. Before what is hidden
. If you want to be great .. I work in silence
. Courage is the only thing that if gold .. Everything went
. If I abandoned my son and then my mountain before I put the last stone in the top .. Listed myself to failure
. Good belong .. The Bad prevail
. Our hearts are completely .. Must provide it from time to time, love and happiness
. If Tank one of the successor .. This means that you are at the forefront
. Lying is .. The means used by the failed Rights
. Marriage is .. Beautiful reminder of love
. Poor .. Is not a friend
. Duplex is .. Is not valid when God
. Most types of falling .. Rainfall
. Rights, which is great smiles .. When tears are on the verge of falling
. Extinguish the candle other .. Remained in the dark like him ..

Water Wisdom gold....@

Water wisdom gold @
What is the most amazing thing in humans?
_ Humans! Telling of childhood, rushing to grow up, and then expect them to be children again.
_ Wasting their health to collect money, and then spend money to regain health.
_ Think of the future with concern, and forget the present, not live the present and the future.
_ Live as if they will never die, and die as if they had never live. @ Lessons of life that the people that Italmoha:
_ Learn they can not make one loved them, what they can do is make themselves Mahboobi.
_ Learn not compare themselves with others.
_ Try to learn tolerance and forgiveness.
_Learn they may inflict deep wounds like those in a few minutes only, but may need medication for many years.
_ Learn that man is not richer owns most, but who need the least. _ Learn that there are people who love too, but they did not learn how to express or show their feelings.
_ Learn that two people can look to the same thing and they deem it differently.
_ Learn it is not enough to forgive one another, but they must also forgive themselves.

... And finally success is too long ...
¤ strength: hope
¤ and Jsrh: ambition
¤ and guided: knowledge
¤ The weapon: Science
¤ and Dalila: Faith
¤ The class: determination and perseverance
¤ and its purpose: promising future
¤ The dream: bright future

¤ and his production: eternal happiness ....

flower

All flowers have a meaning. The Victorians used to use flowers as a symbol to express their feelings. Here is a list of different flowers and their meanings. For hundreds of years flowers have held hidden meanings, derived from mythology, folklore, religious and historical symbolism. The floral bouquet you send or receive brings a special coded message, depending on the flowers you choose.
see rose meanings
'Sweet flowers alone can say what passion fears revealing' Thomas Hood

The study of the meaning of flowers is an actual science known as floriography, and it reveals an extra underlying meaning to sending or receiving flowers - subtle and secret messages can be passed through the different blooms.

During the 18th century sending flower messages based on a Turkish secret language of flowers became popular. This was known as sending a 'Persian Selam' - a coded bouquet to reveal your feelings of love or attraction. The Victorians became very knowledgeable in flower language and chose their bouquets carefully. Flowers gave them a secret language that enabled them to communicate feelings that the propriety of the times would not allow, there were strict restraints on courtship and any displays of emotion.

So next birthday, anniversary, Mother's day or any other occasion you plan to send flowers make sure you don't send the wrong message in your flowers. Even the way you hand over the bouquet sends a message too - flowers held in your right hand mean 'yes', whereas flowers held in the left hand mean 'no'.

Now I will show you some flowers and their meaning and I hope that enjoy you and teach you something new about the flowers….!

Flower meanings

Anemone - dying love - derived from the Greek for 'windflower', mythology relates the anemone sprung from the tears of Aphrodite as she mourned the death of her love, Adonis. In folklore the anemone is believed to bring luck and protection against evil. The flower was said to foretell rain by closing its petals, and fairies were believed to sleep beneath the petals of the wood anemone during the night after they closed at sunset.

Bluebell - constancy and everlasting love - believed to call the fairies when rung, and thought to be unlucky to walk through a mass of bluebells, because it was full of spells. It is also considered an unlucky flower to pick or bring into the house. The Latin name for this flower is Endymion who was the lover of the moon Goddess, Selene. The goddess put Endymion into an eternal sleep, so she alone could enjoy his beauty. Bluebells were said by herbalists to help prevent nightmares, and used as a remedy against leprosy, spider-bites and tuberculosis, but the bluebell is poisonous.


Forget-me-nots - true love and remembrance - mythology describes this as the flower chosen by a brave knight as a posy for his sweetheart before going to battle, as he knelt to gather the tiny blue flowers he fell into a river and was swept away, calling to his love to 'forget me not'.


Moss - symbolic of maternal love - soft and comforting used widely by birds in nesting.

how to be happy

HOW TO BE HAPY!

Everybody gets moody. That's why people go on diets, spend too much money for clothes, or suck up to popular people - because they think it will make them happy! That happiness often proves to come to us! However, if you get to know people around you, you will see what makes the happiest people crazy.

Steps

1. Keep your thought process and think positive. If you catch yourself thinking that things aren't going to work out, then think again. Remember that most things work out better than you fear - so imagine that your fears are ungrounded and that success is ahead. Rather than thinking of the problems and getting desperate, imagine the best outcome and then work out what you need to do to make that happen. Follow your "inner guidance system." If the thoughts you are thinking are not giving you a good feeling, then think about something else that will make you feel good in that moment. Monitor your thoughts consistently throughout the day. Sometimes this may not be as easy as you think if you are stuck in a "negative" train of thought and your brain chemicals are getting fired up and forming an "anxiety or anger" pathway. Anxiety, fear and anger patterns can be interrupted by focusing on doing a math problem, counting backwards, counting in odd numbers, doing a sudoku puzzle, etc. - this will dissipate the rush of chemicals that are making you feel bad. Immediately then go back to picturing scenes/remembering things/imagining, planning stuff that makes you feel good.
2. Volunteer and learn to be a giver. It is possible giving time and resources to others who need them will contribute more to your happiness and positive outlook on life than most anything else. The key to successful family relationships is sacrificing time for others. Give of your time to your spouse and give yourself up for him/her. Devote time and resources to your children and recognize they are your most valuable worldly asset. The happiest days of our lives, when we really dig down deep, is when we see the smile on the face of a child who has nothing and you have given them something of immense value to them such as reading them a book, it means you love them enough to give of your time. Serve at a rescue mission and you will learn the meaning of "I cried because I had no shoes and then I saw a man who had no legs." Give and it will be given unto you. Isn't it true the happiest people we know are typically the ones who for some foolish reason are always ready to give you the clothes off of their back? And frequently it is true that the most discontented people are the ones who are selfish, demanding, and inconsiderate of others. So form the habit of being a Big Giver and you will know one of the secrets to successful happy living.
3. See the world for what it really is. You have friends and family that love you. Learn How to be thankful. Think of all the things you have to be happy about. Relax, calm down, take things slower. No one has everything, and everyone has something of sorrow intermingled with gladness of life. The trick is to make the laughter outweigh the tears. We cannot change the past, but we can enjoy today, and look to the future. But if we are prepared to take credit for the past and accept that everything that happened in our life, good and bad, has made us the person we are - the battle is half won.
4. Lighten up. Don't take yourself too seriously. Stress can cause many mental, physical, and spiritual problems in your life. One of the major causes of stress is worrying about things that are out of your control. Learn to recognize these things and if you can truly do nothing about them, then just let them go. Take time to laugh at yourself and the situations you find yourself in. Laughter is a powerful, positive medicine and the calmer and more peaceful you can take things, the happier your life will be.
5. Be yourself. You can't please everybody. Don't let criticism worry you. Don’t compare yourself to other people – at work or in your personal life. In the first place, no one knows what other people are going through. More importantly, when you compare yourself to other people, you always tend to see yourself on the "short end". So this is never a good or helpful thing for you to do. One way to get in touch with yourself is through journaling. The goal is to open up completely to yourself and learn to be your best friend by knowing that the truth (to yourself) will set you free from fear! Practice self-acceptance no matter what. Never do something you're not comfortable with. You'll respect yourself for sticking to your guns, and that self-respect will make you happy.
6. Make a scheduled time every day for relaxation. This is a good time to go over any therapy that you’re working on. Having a "relaxation" time or a "quiet time" every day strengthens you, allows the stress and tension in your life to evaporate, and keeps you more on a positive, even keel.
7. Get a job you love. If you have a job you hate or dislike, seriously consider changing your job, or even changing careers. Having a job that makes you look forward to your day when you wake up in the morning is critical to a happy, fulfilled life. Making special time to enjoy interests, hobbies, and family, not only makes life happier, but helps us be more productive on the job.
8. Develop a strong relationship with your family. That includes trust. If you are in an abusive family, you must find a way to stop the abuse that may include separation. If you want a stronger relationship with your family, you're going to need to be honest with them. Tell your family about your life and don't insult them - it hurts them just as much as it hurts you to be insulted.
9. Choose the right companion. Get involved with activities that reflect who you are, and get to know people who like the things you do. Don't rule out the Internet as a place to find a significant other, just get to know them over the phone or through a few months of emails before agreeing to a meeting in person.
10. Choose your friends carefully. Nearly everyone needs someone who cares for them and treats them well. If you have friends who are treating you badly, then ditch them and find friends that do care about you. If you can't find any friends like that in your current circumstances, then look elsewhere. If you're feeling sad, there's nothing like going out with your friends to make you feel better. Surround yourself with friends who are positive, encouraging, and helpful. We all need this continuing, positive encouragement to make solid positive progress in life.
11. Do what you can for those less fortunate than yourself. Volunteer at a hospital or be a part of a program, which take care of patients in some way. When you leave the hospital, you will be so much happier knowing that you've done something meaningful, something someone else can appreciate.
12. Wish the best for others and mean it. It is so easy to be jealous and petty and forget to celebrate the good fortune of your coworkers, friends and family.
13. Keep learning. Whether it is a new hobby or a new dance, just keep learning something that interests you. Just find a new interest and go for it!! It will give you something to keep you occupied, and a new outlook on life.
14. Set goals. Live up to them. When you accomplish a goal, it's a great feeling. If you put all your failures down to other people, you put yourself in their power. Take responsibility for when things go wrong in your life.